The Hunt for a Nanny Part 2: Daycare

So I was going to do a post about the details of our new house to satisfy the people who have been clamoring for more pictures…but our house just isn’t ready yet. Almost. A few more details to settle, and then I won’t be as embarrassed to show you what we’ve cobbled together in the past month.

Imagine we've hung the wood mandalas and that the chalkboard is painted a darker shade...

Imagine we’ve hung the wood mandalas and that the chalkboard is painted a darker shade…

So I’ll continue with the story about trying to find some help around this place so I can finish moving in, so I can not have to get up in the middle of the dang night to write these blog posts, so I can have just a little bit more breathing room to relieve the pressure. Maybe you’re wondering what’s so hard with just one child? Maybe I’m just not that talented at juggling life, home, and childcare and being present through it all.

Anyway, so I’ve been trying to find help so I could get 1-3 hours a day to take care of things. When we moved to our new neighborhood, I was excited to see there was a daycare right in the moobaan. I thought: hey, that’s perfect! I can drop Cy off for a few hours, he gets to hang out and play with other kids, it would be great for him to have friends and playmates, and I can still spend the rest of the day with him.

(And I don’t have to worry about a nanny stealing my baby. Just kidding, I’m not that paranoid. Mostly.)

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I went to visit the daycare on a Saturday, and it looked really sweet, with tons of things to play with, nice, clean activity areas, and the lady running it was quite friendly. She invited us to try it out for a week, so I agreed to bring Cy on Monday morning at the time it worked best for our schedule.

We were there for an hour and a half, and in that time, the kids had a meal, two bath times, nap time, and one activity that consisted of lining all the kids up to stand still for 20 minutes (these were 2-4 year olds, mind you) while the teacher played a tape recording of songs, including the national anthem and the King’s song.

::ahem:: The kids were fidgety to say the least. One poor child was so desperate he walked around banging his head on things to relieve the boredom. The teacher never yelled at him, but it was clear he couldn’t keep in line with the rest of the toddlers.

Not once in that entire hour and a half I was there did the kids touch a toy, engage in an activity that required movement, or involve any kind of enrichment. I’m sure those activities exist there…they just didn’t happen in the window I planned for Cy.

I was prepared for some drawbacks to daycare: some crying, some lack of one-on-one attention, etc. I was hoping daycare would be like what I remembered of mine: hazy sensory memories of toys, colorful posters, and drawing with crayons. Maybe I’m too American, but this one seemed a little too…institutional…for me.

Back to the drawing board.



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9 thoughts on “The Hunt for a Nanny Part 2: Daycare

  1. Hmmm. Sounds a slight bit regimented for toddlers (!). I hope you can find a place that encourages your son to be himself and bring out his best, rather than make him conform to what the adults think he should do. Keep looking — it must be out there :) !

  2. That day care sounds a bit odd, is that normal over there? I can see how discipline can be a good thing, I guess everyone goes about it differently?

    • I don't know how usual that is since I've only seen the one, but I wouldn't be surprised if it is typical preparation for the sit down, be quiet & don't ever ask questions of the teacher kind of education that is widespread here. 

  3. Wow! That's interesting even for Thai preschool/daycare. The baths are interesting and two in that short span of time. I mean I know bathing is very Thai, but that seems excessive. The babies definitely need to play and explore. Hope you find a good solution soon!

  4. Hmmm…little ones need to be on the move. Period. I ran a preschool for many years. Keeping them engaged is all about structured movement that doesn't seem structured. I read Part 3 1st.